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Hi Gaila. You asked that I keep your question on the private side, so i will honor that! When I focussed on your dad and pulled the cards the same theme came up over and over; I interpret what came through as encouragement to set the boundaries you asked about! if you decide not to, the enabling will only continue and it will contribute to you both staying kind of "stuck" in this misery and dysfunction! it shows the best way to empower both of you to step beyond the tangled web that weaves you together is to make the change you asked about. That brings us to another point. I sense you asked about this because you already know this is the healthiest thing to do for both of you! Sometimes we need a little push! Putting your energy into a healthy outcome may feel scarey yet it is rewarding and heling! You have to exert tons of energy to him now, right? Why not use that energy and move in a more beneficial direction! Keep us posted, Nikki

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Hi Frank. Thanks so much for writing in. As soon as you asked about your mother, I saw and heard a voice and words directed towards you, so I must share that and you can write back and let me know how this may make sense. As soon as I saw who i feel is your mom (Ginny or Jenny?) She held three fingers up and said she has three things to tell you. As she said these things she was holding a little white dog in her arms. I kow this sounds sad but it looked as if it had been injured while it was alive (in the head area) and it found itself in your moms arms right away and they are together. The second thing was Kathy will come around and realize she was "too hot headed like her mom" and all willl be well..just give it time to resolve. The house is YOURS and always will be. Your mom trusted you would be the one to care for it properly and responsibly and nothing anyone does will take that from you. She also says it is ok to clean her room out. it will make a wonderful guest room for family towards the end of summer :) I hope this helps! Blessings, Sacred garden Psychic

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